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很久没上来更新了，刚看到最近一篇居然是旧年12月的，2008年都没发表过日志！！

不过MSN这个东西，老是登陆不了，夭折了我的长篇大论。

2008年我没写MSN ，国内的大事却不断发生！！

首先雪灾，藏独，火炬传递受阻，前两天的四川地震 等，令我想起“天将降大任于斯人也.......”这篇文，我们的2008奥运真是来之不易啊！！

但这个是体现中国人民团结的时候了，我已经行动了，为灾区人民捐献了微薄的心意！！希望大家也有力出力，有钱出钱拉！！！

50 Things That Really Do Matter
                  (Short Shots on Living an Exceptional Life)
    It's an article you'll want to read over and over, and share with your friends

In my opinion, these things matter...
1. Listening enough to care and caring enough to listen.
2. Being a dreamer but not living in a dream world.
3. Saying "It doesn't matter" and meaning it.
4. Being a positive influence in any way possible, to as many as possible, for as long as I  possibly can.
5. Balancing justice with mercy and fairness with common sense.
6. Being patient and patiently enduring.
7. Earning credibility instead of demanding compliance.
8. Valuing the wisdom of discernment, the danger of pleasure without restraint, and the joy
   of victory with integrity.
9. Being worthy of trust and trusting what's worthwhile.
10. Enjoying all things small and beautiful.
11. Words that heal.
12. Words that help.
13. And words that encourage.
14. Forgiving myself for what I've done and others for what they haven't.
15. Gaining what I desire without losing what I should gain.
16. Maintaining the passion of purpose while avoiding the pitfalls of ****** hasty
    decisions with little or no discernment.
17. Watching "You've Got Mail" one more time.
18. Enjoying life for all it holds instead of holding out for all it has yet to become.
19. Giving praise without demands and encouragement without expectations.
20. Hugs.  
21. Healing wounds.
22. And helping people realize their dreams.
23. Knowing when I can, can't and shouldn't.
24. Laughter for the sake of laughter!
25. Leading while not forgetting how to follow.
26. Honoring the honorable and avoiding the painful errors of the disgraceful.
27. Knowing the power of commitment, the rewards of self-discipline and the meaning of
    faith in myself, God and others.
28. Smiles -- lots of them.
29. Learning as much as I can for as long as I can.
30. Standing for what's right when everything's wrong, and saying "I'm wrong" when
    something's not right.
31. Letting the music play.
32. Knowing I can and seeking help when I can't.
33. Just doing nothing at just the right time.
34. Filling my mind with all that i* **cellent, truthful, full of hope, and worthy of
    thinking about again.
35. Kisses that say "I love you" more than "I need you."
36. Treasuring ideas for their untapped potential.
37. Caring.
38. Giving.    
39. And having fun.
40. Refusing to believe lies about myself or others regardless of the source -- including
    what I hear from within.
41. Trusting enough to see good in people without blindly trusting in the goodness of all
    people.
42. Success without self-absorption.
43. Showing I know the difference between keeping the rules and listening with
    understanding.
44. Winning with dignity.
45. Losing with grace.
46. And learning from both.
47. Believing in all my possibilities -- and yours too!
48. Appreciating the wisdom of maturity and the beauty of childhood.
49. Avoiding the bondage of bitterness, the deceit of wealth without character, and the
    vanity of pride without gratefulness.
50. Loving for all I'm worth because in the end it's worth it all.

由于之前以为十一要值班，所有没有做出游的计划。谁知原来可以放甘耐假。

好在，酝酿了很久的短途自驾游终于在某人带携下，在这个强热带风暴来临的天气，去佐西冲玩～～

总算是十一长假里的一点收获。

 

今日又约了很久没见的朋友出来唱K，原来白天金柜唱K好抵的，六个钟先几十元，如果不是明天就要上班，还打算继续去唱添～～

一眨眼，7日长假又结束了，明天又开始烦人的工作，真纳闷～～～

不过，我满心地期待下一次假期的到来，我要做好出行计划，好好地玩玩...

就快到八月十五了，每年最喜欢这个节日了，不但是团聚的大日子，而且还有好多好野吃，岩晒我这个为食猫！！！ 

而且今年的八月十五还是特别的呢～

波波说我的生日每19年就和中秋节重叠一起，我查过下万年历，原来真是的，甘即是新历和旧历之间的关系是每19年重复一次拉，再研究落去好似还有好多关联的野。都是不理甘多了，总之希望我每个中秋节的生日，都有你们陪伴....

中秋节当天，你们吃完团圆饭就赏面来寒舍一聚啦～～

具体路线可以打电话问我，想吃咩佳肴都可以提早同我讲架！！！

 

近排过足唱K隐，连续几天都有得唱K,就连朋友结婚的酒楼都有K唱，真是不放过任何机会啊！！呵呵～～

想十一去近近地的地方自驾游啊，有无人响应啊～～